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Cats of the Month for November: Ednah

Cats of the Month for November: Ednah

Eight months. That’s how long Ednah has been waiting for her perfect home.

This November, we’re hoping her wait finally comes to an end! Some cats wear their hearts on their sleeves. Others, like Ednah, take a little more time to let you in. But when they do, every little moment feels extra special.

Ednah is a shy, independent girl who has been waiting for her perfect match since March 2026. While she may not be the first cat to greet you at the door, she has so much personality to share with someone willing to give her the time and space she needs to feel comfortable.

A Little Patience Makes a Big Difference

Ednah is currently living with a foster family, where she’s been making wonderful progress. When she first arrived, she preferred to keep her distance and rarely showed up. But with patience, kindness, and a calm environment, she’s slowly discovering that people can be pretty great!

These days, Ednah is becoming more playful, more curious, and more comfortable with affection. She’s purring more, enjoying gentle brushing and head scratches, and occasionally even approaching her foster family to ask for attention. These may seem like small milestones, but for a cat like Ednah, they’re huge steps forward!

Ednah still gets nervous around sudden movements and unfamiliar situations. She’s not a lap cat, and she prefers to decide when and how she interacts with people. But her foster family sees her confidence growing, and they know there’s even more of her personality waiting to shine.

Ednah’s Perfect Home

Ednah isn’t looking for just any home. She’s looking for HER perfect home. Her ideal family will understand that building trust takes time and that the best relationships are worth waiting for.

Ednah would thrive with:

  • A quiet, calm household without young children, where she can feel safe and comfortable.
  • An experienced cat person who understands feline body language and knows when to give a nervous kitty some space.
  • A patient, understanding adopter who will celebrate her progress and let her build trust at her own pace.

Ednah has also shown curiosity about other cats, so she may be able to share a home with a feline friend with careful introductions.

Most importantly, she needs someone who will love her for exactly who she is: an independent, curious girl who is learning to trust the world around her.

A Special Adoption Opportunity

Because Ednah has made so much progress in foster care, we want to help her find a home without disrupting the confidence she’s worked so hard to build. That’s why we’re doing something a little different!

Instead of meeting Ednah at the shelter, approved adopters can arrange a special visit to meet her in her foster home, where she feels most comfortable.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Complete SAFE Haven’s adoption application and indicate your interest in Ednah.
  2. Once approved, our team will contact you to coordinate a visit with Ednah and her foster family.
  3. Meet Ednah in her familiar environment with a SAFE Haven adoption team member present.
  4. If it’s the right match, you will complete the adoption with the SAFE Haven team!

Potential adopters must provide identification before their scheduled visit. This approach allows Ednah to meet her future family in a place where she feels safe, while giving adopters a chance to see the progress she’s made.

Could You Be the Person Ednah Has Been Waiting For?

After eight months of waiting, Ednah deserves the chance to find a home where she can keep blossoming. She may never be the cat who jumps into your lap the moment you walk through the door. But she could be the cat who greets you with a little purr, surprises you with a playful moment, or decides that today is the day she’d like a few extra head scratches. And when you’ve earned the trust of a cat like Ednah, those moments mean everything.

Could November be the month Ednah finally finds her person?

Apply to adopt through SAFE Haven for Cats and mention Ednah in your application. Our team will help coordinate the next steps.
Not the right home for Ednah? You can still help! Share her story with friends, family, and fellow cat lovers. Somewhere out there is the person she’s been waiting eight months to meet. With your help, we can find them!
Volunteer Spotlight: Sparky MacMillan

Volunteer Spotlight: Sparky MacMillan

Giving Hospice Cats a Lifetime of Love, No Matter How Long That Lifetime May Be

“When a cat feels safe and loved, they blossom.” For SAFE Haven volunteer Sparky MacMillan, those words are more than a belief. He’s witnessed them firsthand through years of opening his home and heart to cats who need extra care.

Sparky has been volunteering with SAFE Haven since October 1994. Over the years, he’s become a dedicated hospice foster, providing a loving home for cats with serious medical conditions a loving home they might otherwise spend their remaining time in a shelter.

His journey into hospice fostering began with a simple ask from the SAFE Haven team. “I had the home, the means, the skill set (I’ve worked with veterinary clinics part-time for decades), and it seemed the least I could do.”

The Cats Who Started It All

Sparky’s first hospice foster was Zanna, a sweet black cat rescued from a hoarding situation. She was among several cats SAFE Haven took in after an ASPCA rescue operation in 2016. While other cats found adoptive homes, Zanna’s medical needs were more complicated. She required extensive dental work, but a heart condition made anesthesia risky. After receiving the care she needed, SAFE Haven determined that hospice fostering would give her the best quality of life.

At the time, Sparky had recently lost three of his own cats, all SAFE Haven adoptees, within a single year. “I was taking a break, knowing full well I’d find someone who needed me soon enough. A month later, I was asked if I would take a hospice cat. I said yes without reservations.”

Sparky expected Zanna might live with him for a few months, perhaps a year. She stayed for eight years.

More Cats, More Love

About a month after Zanna arrived, Enchantress joined the household. An elderly dilute tortoiseshell with lymphoma in remission, Enchantress was also expected to have limited time. Instead, she enjoyed four years in Sparky’s care before her lymphoma returned.

“Although Enchantress and Zanna shared a home, they weren’t close. Each had their own space, and they each got all the meds they needed to address their problems and plenty of love to make their final days comfortable.” Enchantress passed in 2020, and Zanna remained with Sparky until 2024.

After Zanna passed, Sparky welcomed two more cats into his home: Cordon Bleu and Liberty Bell. Both were FeLV-positive (feline leukemia virus) and had been continually overlooked on the adoption floor.

At home, something wonderful happened. “They became bonded and would cuddle up together when they weren’t play fighting so loudly it sounded like they were killing each other (both were extreme drama queens).” Cordon Bleu passed in 2025, and Liberty Bell passed in early 2026.

Today, Sparky’s hospice companion is Forrest, another FeLV-positive cat who came home with him in December. With additional medical challenges, SAFE Haven staff believed Forrest would do better in a loving foster home than waiting in a shelter for an adopter.

What Does Hospice Fostering Really Look Like?

According to Sparky, caring for a hospice cat isn’t all that different from caring for any other cat. “You provide a space, food, litter, enrichment, meds. If there are medical conditions that need to be monitored, you monitor them and stay in communication with SHFC staff to ensure decisions are made for the best interest of the cat.”

But there's something about hospice fostering that continues to amaze him. “How far love will go.”

“When a cat feels safe and loved, they blossom. When a hospice cat is given a home full of love, patience, and security, they blossom. Obviously, love alone will not keep an ill cat alive longer than the body can sustain them, but feeling that love, that warmth, well, l that’s just one less stress factor the cat has to endure, and that can affect its health positively.”

Is Saying Goodbye Worth It?

For many potential foster families, the hardest part of hospice fostering is knowing that goodbye may come sooner than they’d like. Sparky understands that concern, but he offers a different perspective.

“Yes, these hospice kitties are cats you know have a limited time with you, but that’s true for any cat. Is a cat near the end of its life less deserving of love? I think a case might be made that they deserve more.”

And while saying goodbye is never easy, Sparky believes the love shared makes it worthwhile. 

“Sadly, we live longer than they do, but that just means we can give love to more than one. And when you look back at your life, isn't that the point, loving as many as you can?”

– Sparky MacMillan

A Gift That Changes Everything

For Sparky, hospice fostering is about giving cats what every animal deserves: comfort, companionship, security, and love. “You know that you’ve made their final days/months/years worth living. They aren’t sitting in a cage. They weren’t euthanized for convenience. They felt love, warmth, companionship in their time of need.”

His message to anyone considering hospice fostering is simple: “Hospice kitties are so worth your time. If you have space and if you have the time and if you have the love, you owe it to yourself to see what you’re capable of.”

Thank you, Sparky, for more than three decades of dedication to SAFE Haven and for showing us that every day of love matters, whether a cat has eight years or just a little time left.

Want to make a difference for a cat who needs extra care?

Learn more about fostering with SAFE Haven for Cats and how you can help provide comfort, love, and a home to a cat who needs you.

Hospice Foster Care Gives Cats Comfort When They Need It Most

Hospice Foster Care Gives Cats Comfort When They Need It Most

Every cat deserves to feel safe, comfortable, and loved, including cats facing serious medical challenges or nearing the end of their lives.

At SAFE Haven for Cats, our commitment to excellent feline care extends beyond the shelter and adoption. Through our Permanent Foster and “Fospice” programs, cats with complex medical needs can spend their days in the comfort of a home while continuing to receive veterinary care and support from the SAFE Haven team.

From 2018 through 2026, 58 cats have been part of SAFE Haven’s fospice program, with 19 currently in foster homes.

What Is Fospice?

Fospice combines foster care with hospice care = Fospice Volunteers. It is designed for older cats and cats or kittens with serious medical conditions expected to live about 18 months or less. Instead of spending that time in the shelter, these cats can settle into a foster home where they get individual attention, familiar routines, and plenty of comfort.

Their foster families provide the home and the love. SAFE Haven continues to provide the medical expertise and resources. SAFE Haven supplies everything needed to care for the cat, including food, litter, bowls, bedding, toys, scratchers, a carrier, and medications. SAFE Haven handles all veterinary care, and our veterinary team continues to oversee medical decisions throughout the cat’s life. Fosters also have support from SAFE Haven’s foster coordinator and veterinary technicians when questions or concerns arise.

Expert Care, Right at Home

Every hospice cat is different, so we tailor care to their individual needs. Cats receive regular veterinary checkups, bloodwork, vaccines, and medications as appropriate. As a cat’s health changes, we may schedule additional appointments so our veterinary team can closely monitor symptoms and adjust care.

Many hospice cats also receive medication at home. That might be as simple as mixing a liquid medication into food, or it may involve more advanced care, such as administering subcutaneous fluids several times a week.

Fosters aren’t expected to arrive knowing how to do these things. SAFE Haven staff teach them. Our team demonstrates how to administer medications and treatments, provides instructions, and remains available to help.

Fosters maintain a medication log and stay in close communication with SAFE Haven so everyone involved has the information needed to make thoughtful decisions about the cat’s care. It is a partnership between a dedicated foster family and a team with extensive feline medical and caregiving experience.

When a Cat’s Needs Change

End-of-life care can come with difficult decisions, and foster families don’t have to navigate them alone. SAFE Haven helps fosters recognize signs that a cat’s health or quality of life may be changing. For cats whose conditions require closer monitoring, veterinary visits may become more frequent, and communication with the foster family may increase.

When a cat begins to decline, the goal remains the same: comfort, dignity, and quality of life.

Our veterinary team works with the foster family to determine the most compassionate path forward. That can include pain management and supportive care or, when a cat’s quality of life has significantly declined, humane euthanasia. Foster families can be involved in that process as much as they feel is right.
And sometimes, cats surprise everyone.

Cats who appear to have only a few months left in the shelter may thrive once they’re settled into a quiet, loving home. Some fospice cats have gone on to live for a year or longer than initially anticipated. It’s powerful to see what comfort, consistency, and individualized care can do.

Fospice and Permanent Foster: What’s the Difference?

SAFE Haven offers both Fospice and Permanent Foster placements. Both allow cats with special medical circumstances to live in homes with continued SAFE Haven support, but they serve different needs.

Permanent Foster is generally for cats unlikely to be adopted because of a terminal or lifelong medical condition, or because ongoing care costs could make traditional adoption difficult. These cats may still have many years ahead of them, but they remain part of SAFE Haven’s foster program for life.

Fospice focuses on older cats, or cats and kittens with serious medical conditions, who are approaching the end of their lives, generally with an estimated 18 months or less remaining.

In both cases, the goal is to give a cat the best possible quality of life.

Could You Be a Fospice Volunteer?

Fospice fostering is a special commitment. Unlike many foster placements, there isn’t a traditional adoption day at the end. A fospice foster agrees to care for their cat for the rest of that cat’s life.

The best fospice fosters are compassionate cat lovers who communicate regularly with SAFE Haven, watch for changes in their cat’s behavior or health, follow care instructions, and adapt as the cat’s needs change.

Most importantly, they’re willing to open their home and heart to a cat who needs a gentle place to land.
You don’t need to be a veterinary professional. You don’t need to know how to administer fluids or manage a complicated medication schedule to get started.

At SAFE Haven, we believe every cat deserves the best life possible, no matter their age or medical needs. Through expert veterinary care, compassionate foster families, and a commitment to understanding each cat as an individual, we’re making sure every day is filled with the comfort, dignity, and love they deserve.

You provide the home and the love. SAFE Haven provides the supplies, veterinary expertise, training, and ongoing support.

SAFE Haven Pet Food Drive

SAFE Haven Pet Food Drive

They’re Counting on US

Our pets depend on us for everything. Now, hundreds of local families are counting on us, too.

Think about your pet for a moment. They don’t know how much groceries cost. They don’t understand rising bills or tight budgets. They just know that when they’re hungry, someone who loves them will fill their bowl.

Our pets count on us for everything.

But what happens when the people they count on are struggling to afford their next meal? That’s where SAFE Haven comes in.

Nearly 100 families rely on the SAFE Haven Pet Food Pantry a month to feed the cats and dogs they love. And here’s something you might not know: SAFE Haven runs the only dedicated pet food pantry in the Triangle. That means hundreds of families are counting on one pantry to help them care for the animals who depend on them. And that pantry is counting on YOU.

One Pantry. Hundreds of Families. One Community That Cares.

SAFE Haven Pet Food Drive

November 15–22, 2026

DROP IT OFF:

November 15–22

SAFE Haven for Cats
8431 Garvey Drive, Suite 137
Raleigh, NC 27616

ORDER FROM WISHLISTS:

From November 15–22, we’re asking you to help stock the shelves of the SAFE Haven Pet Food Pantry.

Your donation of cat food, dog food, or cat litter helps local families provide the everyday care their pets need and deserve.

When a pet looks up at their person with an empty bowl, they trust someone will be there to fill it. Let’s make sure that trust is never broken.

They’re counting on us. And together, we can be there for them.

TWO EASY WAYS TO HELP

DROP IT OFF: November 15–22 at SAFE Haven for Cats, 8431 Garvey Drive, Suite 137, Raleigh, NC 27616.

SHOP FROM HOME: Order food and supplies from our Amazon or Chewy wishlists and ship them directly to SAFE Haven.

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/X29JH54ZOOLL
Chewy: https://www.chewy.com/g/safe-haven-for-cats_b90825919

MOST NEEDED:
Sealed, unexpired wet and dry dog food
Sealed, unexpired wet and dry cat food
Cat litter

Your next grocery run could help keep a family together. One more bag. One more full bowl.

Why the Pantry Matters

Since 2012, SAFE Haven’s Pet Food Pantry has helped families facing financial hardship feed their pets. Unlike groceries for people, pet food cannot be purchased with SNAP benefits. For a family stretching a tight budget, a bag of food can mean one less worry. For a pet, it means a full bowl and the comfort of staying at home with the people they love.

Pet Food Pantry By the Numbers

Last year, the SAFE Haven Pet Food Pantry helped keep pets fed, healthy, and with the families who love them:

  • 97 families served every month, on average, totaling 1,170 pantry appointments
  • 350 different families received support throughout the year
  • 1,133 beloved pets had food in their bowls
  • 28,343 pounds of pet food distributed to families in need
  • 41,799 pounds of food and litter donated by our community = 29,981 pounds of food and
  • 11,818 pounds of litter – that’s the weight of about 7 adult elephants!

Thousands of pounds. More than a thousand pets. Hundreds of families able to care for the animals counting on them.

Shop Our Wishlists

Drop Off Information

SAFE Haven for Cats
8431 Garvey Drive, Suite 137
Raleigh, NC 27616.

See the Pet Food Pantry In Action

Watch Pet Food Pantry Manager Rachel share how your donations will make an immediate impact for hungry pets.
Foster a Cat in Raleigh: Help SAFE Haven Save More Lives

Foster a Cat in Raleigh: Help SAFE Haven Save More Lives

A little extra space in your home can make a big difference for a cat in need. We’re looking for more foster families in Raleigh and the Triangle to help us say “yes” to even more cats.

Why Foster a Cat

Traci Highsmith Holding Four Kittens In Her Arms - Photo by News & Observer - Juli LeonardWhen you foster a cat, you’re helping more than the kitty in your home. You’re making room for the next cat or kitten who needs us.

That extra space is powerful. National data from Best Friends Animal Society shows that shelters with robust foster programs have higher adoption rates than those without. Foster homes give cats a comfortable place to wait for adoption while freeing shelter space and staff resources for animals who need more intensive care.

We’re seeing that impact right here at SAFE Haven. 

We’re seeing that impact right here at SAFE Haven. In the first 4 months after relaunching our foster program in June 2026, 174 cats and kittens spent time in foster care, and nearly 75% (125 kitties) were adopted.

When writing this article in October 2026, SAFE Haven had 70 active foster families (and SH staff) with 32 fosters currently in care and 38 ready and willing to take a placement when needed. Our goal is to have 100 total foster volunteers ready to take a kitty by the end of 2026.

More fosters willing to open their homes means more cats SAFE Haven can help. When a cat stays with a foster family, our veterinary team can focus on cats who need the most medical attention. It also gives us more flexibility when a local shelter or community member reaches out about a cat in urgent need of help. Even when our shelter is full, an available foster home can give us another way to support our community.

One of the best things about fostering a cat is getting to know who they really are. Does your foster love watching birds through the window? Follow you around while you work? Have a favorite toy? Prefer a quiet home? What you learn can help us find the perfect adopter for them. Some cats can even be adopted directly from their foster homes by the foster, a family member, or friends in their close circle! All SAFE Haven adoptions, whether from foster or in the traditional shelter setting, follow our established approval and cat selection processes; however, fosterers can help find their foster cat a great home by using their personal networks to share and facilitate an adoption.

Fostering brings our work into the community. Every foster family becomes part of a larger network that shares cats, tells their stories, and introduces more people to SAFE Haven’s mission. That means more people discovering adoption, volunteering, fostering, and other ways to help cats in our community.

Simply put: More foster homes, more cats rescued. Your spare room can save a life!

We’ve Made Fostering Easier

You don’t need to be an experienced cat caregiver to foster with SAFE Haven. One of the biggest changes to our foster program is a renewed focus on placing healthy, otherwise adoptable cats in foster homes, where they can wait until it is their chance to meet their forever family. This lets fosterers of all skill levels get involved right away and gives our cats a chance to practice living the housecat life before their eventual adoption. SAFE Haven prioritizes foster placements for cats who need a comfortable temporary home, daily attention and care, and someone to help prepare them for their future family.

As you get to know your foster cat, you can help us tell their story, share their personality, and introduce them to potential adopters in your circle. While SAFE Haven handles the adoption process, you become one of their biggest advocates. We even encourage you to be a “Cat-fluencer” and create social content to help your kitty get adopted faster!

We’ve also made it easier to find foster opportunities that work for you. Our application asks in-depth questions about your experience, home, schedule, and the types of cats you’re most comfortable fostering. We use that information to match you with cats that fit your preferences and availability so that you won’t be inundated with emails about fosters you’re not interested in or able to take. And with foster orientation offered multiple times a month, you can get started the same week you apply!

Best of all, you’ll have support every step of the way. SAFE Haven has a dedicated Foster Coordinator to answer questions, provide guidance, and help you feel confident caring for your foster cat. You provide the temporary home; we’ll help with the rest!

What Makes a Great Foster Volunteer?

You don’t need previous shelter experience, a veterinary degree, or a perfect home. Great foster volunteers are willing to learn, follow care instructions, communicate with our team, and be honest about what they can take on. And you don’t need to have constant availability to offer foster support. Vacations, busy seasons, and breaks are expected; that’s why we aim to recruit a large, flexible foster community!

Our best foster volunteers are people who communicate with us, are honest about what they can take on, pay attention to their foster cat’s needs, and are willing to learn along the way. We also appreciate flexibility because, as every cat person knows, cats don’t always follow the plan! Most importantly, you don’t have to figure it out on your own. Our Foster Coordinator helps match you with the right cat, provides guidance, and will be there for you when you inevitably have questions.

And remember, every foster can leave a lasting impact on SAFE Haven’s overall adoption success with every placement they take on. While “foster fails” make for sweet stories, only about 15% of SAFE Haven foster cats were adopted directly from their foster homes. For many volunteers, the joy of fostering lies in helping one cat find their forever family, then opening their home to the next cat who needs a temporary place to land.

More Ways to Foster

Although we prioritize sending cats ready for adoption into foster, we do often need volunteers interested in taking on more challenging (and rewarding!) placements. SAFE Haven also needs help fostering cats with medical and socialization needs. These cats may need medication, additional monitoring, or extra help building confidence and learning to trust people. Additional training is required, but SAFE Haven provides individualized guidance and support along the way. Helping a cat blossom in foster care can be one of the most rewarding volunteer experiences you’ll have!

Ready to Foster a Cat?

Getting started is easy. SAFE Haven offers foster orientation weekly to help new volunteers get involved while they’re excited and ready. Whether you foster one cat, open your home a few times a year, or become a regular foster volunteer, you’re helping create space for another cat who needs SAFE Haven.

Apply to become a SAFE Haven for Cats foster volunteer today.

Your temporary guest could be the reason we’re able to say “yes” to the next cat who needs us.

Meet Foster Volunteers Making a Difference Right Now

The Cats Who Were Never Mine to Keep.

🐱 They brought 37 cats into their home. But only TWO got to stay. Why?

Since 2023, SAFE Haven foster parents Kandice Scarberry and her husband have opened their home to 37 cats and kittens. There have been adorable moments, sleepless nights, heartbreaking goodbyes, and two cats they just couldn’t let go. But what Kandice shares about the other 35 cats might completely change how you think about fostering.

Grab a tissue and read her story >

Ready to Change a Cat's Life?

Apply to be a foster and we will be in touch with next steps and for the entire journey.